Escorts may seem the same no matter where you go. Whether you look down on them or are curious as to what these escorts have to offer, these people are not so desperate for money that they are willing to have sex with anyone. While society paints them as deviants, the truth of the matter is most of these people enjoy their jobs. And there are plenty of people that are determined to take full advantage of it. While sex work is legal, including escorting, it is still important to be careful when looking for an escort. Many advertise online or work through agencies and this guide will help you keep yourself and your escort protected. At the end of the day, it all comes down to sex workers, and escorts have been a part of everyday life since the dawn of civilization.
As far back as 2400 BCE, business for escorts (while not called that then) has been in demand. This can be rightfully considered to be one of the oldest professions in civilization. Men and women throughout history have taken part in this profession for a variety of reasons, but the main one has always been sex. And while there is nothing wrong with that, society has a way of making normal things seem bad. Sometimes people in charge forget how simple the reasons are and attempt to criminalize these actions.
Even when the profession is criminalized and criticized, these men and women don't go away, they just find ways to still do the job. Many times, they just find clever ways to continue doing their job without violating a law. If you can't advertise escort services in magazines, take it online. And even when someone suggests making it illegal to advertise these services, that doesn't go well.
Even during the medieval period in the UK, escorts were considered legal and there were even laws in place to define how that and brothels would work. While sex work has not been seen as one of the most appreciated professions, it is a profession that has withstood the test of time. Up until the 19th century, where there was much less of a separation of church and state. The Vagrancy Act of 1824 criminalized many things such as begging for money or sleeping in the street, including prostitution. And it essentially went downhill for a while. People believed it was such horrible work and even men that went to see these women were horrible as well. While sex work in London is legal now, there are still many things surrounding sex work that are not. But since the 1800s, perception of escorts, and sex workers in general, hasn't gotten much better.
There are still plenty of people that look down on men and women who use/are escorts. It's still seen as dirty or bad when in all reality, it is just people finding companions, having a good time, all while exchanging some money. It is no different than going to a 9-5 every day and getting paid at the end of the week. The only real difference is that most escorts actually enjoy their work, while many people with 9-5 jobs do not.
The public perception of escorts can lead to women and men in the industry hiding their occupation from friends, family, and potential partners. And while the occupation itself is not technically illegal, escorts are still not keen on trusting authorities. This can mean they are less likely to go to the authorities if a client gets out of hand. All this is to show how the profession can be scary, as well as rewarding if you are willing to work around these hazards. But the laws have only made it harder to get the word out about where exactly to find escorts. Restrictions on where escorts can advertise have moved the ads online, making it easier for people to find exactly what they are looking for.
Just as the internet has made finding almost anything easier, there is no exception for escort services. The internet makes it possible for everyone to satisfy their kinks, fetishes, and more. Escorts can be used to spice up relationships and allow people who might not feel comfortable exploring their sexuality and/or fetishes with a partner to try something new. Escorts are also used for stag parties to spice up an already crazy night out. Whatever the reason may be, there is an escort out there for everyone.
Types of Escorts And Tips
Many escorts offer a wide variety of services and actions they are willing to do. This makes finding the perfect escort for your needs even easier. While this guide will explore the different types of escorts in London, it doesn't hurt to mention there are more types of escorts then we'll talk about. If you are interested in trying to find specialty escorts, it's always best to start there and then widen your search if you can't find exactly what you're looking for.
Something that many find interesting is that there are a variety of ethnicities within London. From Asian to African and everything in between, if specific races are what gets you going, there are more than enough to choose from. But you don't need to only look for different races, you can sometimes even request your escort to act a certain way.
Many times, you can explain to the escort that you would like them to act and be a certain way. While they know to be extra attentive and interested in you, you can ask for things such as acting like a bimbo or just even stupid. Things like this can make the night more enjoyable for a client and make it easier for the escort to tailor their actions to the client.
Granted, a client is paying to get exactly what they want, even if their fantasy may be a bit off. However, keep in mind that they are allowed to say no when you ask for something. So don't push too hard if the escort declines or suggests you'll have to pay more for them to act that way.
There are also escorts that women can look into as well. While it is not as big of a market, there are still plenty of escorts to choose from for women. We do not shed too much light on this particular subject but we can touch on it here.
While many male escorts look like very stereotypical hunks, there is more to male escorting services than that. Same as for a female escort, you want to keep your search narrow at first so you can find exactly what you're looking for. However, the market is smaller for male escorts so you might have to widen your search early on. And just like with a female escort, you want to ask them for exactly what you want. Most are more than happy to oblige, but if you are paying, you might as well get your money's worth. The ways to finding the perfect escort are about the same, but it may be harder for a female client to be assertive so make sure you know exactly what you want before going further. Chances are that if you are interested in an escort, you probably have no real issues taking charge when it comes to men. And just like female escorts, if they are not comfortable with the request, they are allowed to say no. You should not take this as an insult but simply as something that they don’t do, and you should respect that.
Whether you're a female or male looking to have a good time, there are plenty of choices out there. Many people recommend going for more exotic escorts since it is said many native London escorts might not be as attractive as someone from another country. London has one of the most diverse and busiest scenes in Europe so there are plenty of girls or boys to choose from. There are also some men and women that advertise in free classified directories, which usually mean they are more budget-friendly. But this does not mean they are completely honest about what they can or will do. Although, you are much more likely to get better service by going through an agency. Some of these agencies have even been around for decades. But there are other places to go looking for an escort besides the internet.
London holds a variety of strip clubs, sex shops, and sex clubs. There is also a thriving swingers scene in London as well if you are looking to include your partner in some fun. There are also erotic massage parlors and even some illegal brothels. There is an abundance of things to choose from if you're looking for a quick fling, to relieve stress, or even to get involved in a completely new scene. It can be surprising if you have never thought about it before, but if you're looking for it, it seems to be everywhere.
What can be a bit surprising is that there are plenty of hotels you can rent for a few hours. While these hotels are mostly for businessmen to get away and get some work done, many people use these same hotels for a quick rendezvous with an escort. There are even lists out there that say exactly where to go to spend the night with an escort and not have to worry about how those around you will react.
In this guide, we also correct some misconceptions about escorts. Some of these misconceptions include the difference between prostitutes and escorts, traditional dating versus being with an escort, etc. We even touch on the safety for clients and escorts, to help you get an idea of how to make sure your escort feels safe, as well as yourself. There is also a section talking about gold diggers and sugar babies so that you also understand how they differ from an escort. While it all might sound a bit overwhelming, the longer you read this guide, the more comfortable and confident you will feel with all this terminology. But that is not all, we want you to feel good about after reading this guide.
You're Not Alone
It may feel a bit odd if you have never looked into escorting services before. We have a funny feeling, especially if you're reading this section, that this may be your first dive into this world. While it may feel weird or even dirty, there is no need to feel that way. Many other men and women call on escorts for a variety of reasons. Some of these reasons include hen or stag parties, relieving stress, or even just not wanting to be lonely. Whatever the reason, no one is judging you.
Many escorts do not care what your reasons are. While that can feel a bit cold, at the end of the day, it is the truth. They are doing a job just like you when you clock into you 9-5. They realize the reasons vary but their job is to make you feel amazing and satisfied. And if they work for an agency, they probably care even less about what your reasons are.
To make it even better, most escorts enjoy their jobs. They enjoy getting to know new people and pleasuring someone else and themselves. Many times a 9-5 sounds horrible to them and they know working as an escort helps them earn more money. If they are enjoying their jobs, why shouldn't you enjoy them?
You could even have some extra fun with your partner. While not all escorts are willing to take on more than one person, many are more than willing to do that, as long as you are willing to pay adequately. Many people want to add another person to their sex life but are unsure of how to do that so that it might not potentially ruin the relationship. Inviting a total stranger at a bar or advertising on Tinder may not be your first choice, and we get it. A perfect way to add a third person to your sex life and not worry about them getting attached or ruining a relationship is to hire an escort. And, depending on how well it goes, it’s easy to contact the same person again and have a good time.
It can feel a bit intimidating knowing all this, but you've come to the right place to get your head on straight. This guide explains so many things that there is no reason for you to feel like you cannot handle this or you do not know where to start.
What To Expect Next
Along with some history of escort business in London, we explain exactly how to find an escort, what types of escorts there are, how to stay safe, how to appeal more to escorts, and so much more. We are determined to make sure you understand exactly what you are getting yourself into before you dive in.
This guide will make you feel ready and willing to go and find the perfect escort for yourself. The most interesting sections include terminology that will give you a leg up when communicating with your escort. It also provides tips for overnights with an escort, what sites to visit with an escort, and where to stay if you're from out of town. We specifically point these sections out so those that are unfamiliar with escorts can know exactly where to start.
The main point of this entire guide is to learn as much as possible about escorts. The more you know about them and where to go to find one, the better off you are. We fully realize this is a hard thing to navigate if you are not at all familiar with escort services. And researching on your own can make you feel even more confused than when you started. That being said, this guide will help you figure out the best options for you and may even make you feel more confident about stepping into the world of escorts.