Male Escort: Why Older Women Hire Younger Men

The stereotype is often that a man may run off with a younger woman. Yet older women – including married women - often want the company of much younger men for social interaction as well as for sex, and they may include hiring an escort because their partner in their view doesn't satisfy them in bed.

Blog Paired Life offers 10 other reasons for the attraction of a young stud, ranging from the men her age no longer as being as attractive as they once were compared to a fit young man to wanting to feel young again, as well as the thrill of dating another guy and wanting excitement in the bedroom.  Older women may also perceive younger men as being more fun and need to feed their ego by bedding a younger man to prove they are still attractive.

Finding bliss

Lynsey Hope's article for The Sun, 'Finding Bliss': I'm a married grandma but secretly pay a male escort £300 for orgasms – he's 20 years younger & has changed my life', “Here I was with a gorgeous man nearly 20 years my junior who certainly wasn't my husband. After pouring two glasses of wine, he unzipped my dress and started kissing my body from head to toe.”

“I instantly let go of all my old hang-ups, forgetting about my wobbly tummy and cellulite as he built me towards my first orgasm in decades. And it was worth every penny of the £300 an hour I was paying him to pleasure me.”

The woman in question is named Jane in the article, and her experience is said to echo that of British actress Emma Thompson who plays a 55-year-old who hires a sex worker in Good Luck to You, Leo Grande. Before Jane's own episode with her escort experience with Scott, aged 39, she was just an ordinary mum of three and grandmother of five grandchildren. She'd be married for 35 years when she met him, and had never previously slept with anyone else except her 62-year old husband.

Hiring an escort

Her interest in hiring an escort first came about when she read an article in February 2019 about a male escort, and so the idea of hiring one because a fantasy. A couple of months later she stumbled across a website advertising the services of a male escort, and this led to her connecting with Scott.

When they eventually met in a bar in South-West London, and despite being anxious that Scott would bolt upon seeing her, he made her feel at ease to the point that she felt there was chemistry between them. For the first time in ages, she felt that someone was listening to her. Beyond what happened between them in a hotel room, Jane now feels happier and sex with her husband has improved. She has also lost weight, feels more confident, and values herself more as a person.

Better self-image

Before meeting Scott, Jane could barely look at her own body in the mirror without being disgusted by it. She accredits him for helping her to find genuine bliss, for which she will always be grateful. As Paired Life says, “When a woman dates a younger guy, she is exposed to a life that she would have virtually forgotten about. The playful romance, romantic outings, and youthful love can make her feel like she is reliving her 20s.” In essence, Jane has been reminded of her attractiveness by her escort experience. This attractiveness is not necessarily lost by age, but self-perception can lose its spark.