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How To Treat An Escort

How To Treat An Escort One of the world's worst misconceptions today is that all sex work is a disgusting, immoral trade, one that shouldn't even be allowed, let alone publicized. Sex workers have always found themselves manipulated, abused, and violated as a result of this misguided notion, even by

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How To Treat An Escort

One of the world's worst misconceptions today is that all sex work is a disgusting, immoral trade, one that shouldn't even be allowed, let alone publicized. Sex workers have always found themselves manipulated, abused, and violated as a result of this misguided notion, even by their customers. This abuse commonly comes in the form of poor treatment, emotional abuse and also physical treatment. Escorts, as sex workers, aren't spared from the wrath. There are hundreds of tell-alls on the internet from escorts who've experienced vile treatment from their customers firsthand, with most never seeking retribution for fear of further attacks. For clients looking to get an escort service, it's necessary to understand that treating a woman right is essential. It's not only during sex that escorts deserve proper care; the whole process of hiring an escort for her services demands proper treatment in all its forms, right from when you book her to the moment you leave. For many men, this is a difficult feeling to reconcile. Most men don't see sex workers as individuals that deserve to be treated right. Instead, they are viewed as sex objects, only worthy during use and never after. In the detailed guide below, we show you how you can beat that bias and learn how to treat an escort right.

Be a gentleman and treat her right

The ultimate answer to 'how to treat an escort' is this: be a gentleman, be respectful and follow the rules of her game. It's as simple as that. Of course, there's more to it than just three short guiding principles. But ultimately, those three engross all the different aspects of treating an escort right. The whole idea of treating an escort right stems from the understanding that she is not a product for sale or a worthless object without feelings and thoughts. Because escorts are human beings, it's their fundamental right not to be mistreated or disrespected. Escorts provide a service that customers pay for, not their bodies for sale. Below, we take a deeper look into the three guiding principles above, with deeper ways of how to treat an escort right.

Honor Your Appointment with Her

The first way to respect an escort is by honoring the appointment you and she made together. In the same way, it is very disrespectful to stand up a woman and fail to show up for the appointment you arranged with an escort. When an escort agrees to meet a client, she marks the time on her schedule and starts preparing for her client. That might involve prepping her body to her client's likes, ordering sex toys and other tools, etc. When a client doesn't show up, it's a slap in the face for her. It means that the client couldn't spare a moment the way she did. Good high-class escorts tend to be in high demand, so they always have work around the clock and always stick to their appointment times. A one-hour appointment starting at 6 pm will remain a one-hour appointment ending at 7 pm whether the client comes in at 6 pm or half-past. Clients that show up late and request to be given time extensions are rude and selfish. Most escorts will not extend an appointment in such situations. If you must come late or cancel an appointment, call the escort early enough and be clear. Then let her decide on extending or canceling your appointment.

Understand Her Rules of the Game

Every escort has her rules regarding her sessions with clients. Any client looking to treat an escort right has to understand her rules first. The rules usually revolve around what she accepts and what she doesn't, and they are vital in building a sexual session that both parties will enjoy. Some of the commonest rules encompass the use of condoms or bareback sex, client cleanliness, payments, and more. An escort might demand that every client take a shower first before sex, or that at no time can a condom be ripped off during sex. An escort might also require that clients disclose whether they are on any sexual enhancement drugs at the very beginning. Most usually have clear limits on what they are willing to do with a client. Others tend to have rules on cash and other alternative payments. Almost all clients have rules against recording or photographing any aspect of the sexual session. For a client, understanding these rules is a major step toward treating the escort right and deriving a great sex session from it all.

Show Her The Necessary Respect

With escorts, as with any other service provider, respect is paramount. How you show respect to an escort varies, but is directly related to how you understand her rules. Any form of abuse is total disrespect and unacceptable. Disrespect can include refusing to take a shower when she requests you to, or pulling off a condom midway because you want to trick her into raw sex against her wishes. Respect goes all the way to payments too. Most escorts request that clients come with cash and place it somewhere visible, and not right into their hands. It's also disrespectful to haggle an escort's fees- she will not lower them for you. During sex, don't abuse her or call her names like slut and whore, unless she says she likes dirty talk. Don't stalk her outside the session or record your session for internet sharing. It's also highly disrespectful to send her photographs of your penis unless she asks for them. Respect extends to any dinners or dates you might whisk her to because you're expected to act like a gentleman with her.

Avoid Patronizing Her Or Playing Saviour

If there is one thing all sex workers detest more than anything else, it is customers that want to know 'why they chose this line of work' and 'if they are happy' or if 'they need to be saved and pulled out'. Many escorts are in the business of providing company to clients at their own will and choosing, so there's no question of force or unhappiness. Escorts, in particular, are wary of men that immediately offer large sums of money in exchange for leaving the trade. As a client, you might not realize it, but such statements are insulting to the women they are directed to. It's an immediate put-down and a sign that you don't value whatever service she intends to offer. Your escort prefers that you don't offer her any routes out of the trade, or any unsolicited advice on how to deal with her life. All you need to do is get your booked service, have fun, pay your due and leave. It's that simple.

Make It More Than Just Sex

In the world of high-class escorts, sex is never mentioned. Clients don't meet escorts for 'sex'! They meet for companionship; certain companionship clients may not be experiencing at home or in their personal lives. That companionship includes anything and everything, ranging from long talks to cuddling and even sex. In other words, despite how media today portrays it, escorts are not available for sex only. The fee an individual pays is for the time spent together, not for sex. That's why it's essential to treat your session with an escort as more than just a sexual encounter. Escorts appreciate clients that build momentum around sex, with dinners, club nights outs, dates, or even shopping sprees. Even nights are good ideas because it's all about the experience. These experiences result in better sex overall, because of the chemistry. Escorts are professionals, so you don't need to worry about them getting attached to you because of these experiences. Just try to make it more than just a sexual encounter.

Don't Force Her into Anything

The founding principle of escort work is that sex and any other activities between an escort and a client are consensual. No one is forced to be there, and no one should be. No escort should be forced into anything sexual or non-sexual by a client because that undermines her right as an individual. Even when forced sex is a great turn-on for you, it is not a good idea with an escort. Clients tend to force escorts into a wide range of things, right from forced partaking of fetishes to forced sex altogether. Others force escorts into recording sexual acts. If any aspect of the session is not consensually agreed upon by both individuals, then it is forced. If you're used to getting sexual favors by force, that is the wrong way to go about handling an escort. Force undermines the professional relationship between client and escort and is always hurtful.

Pay Her Well and Fairly, According To Her Rate

All escorts have service rates, and they make them clear on their websites or agency pages. The prices are usually per hour, but other variations are possible. Regardless of how expensive an escort might appear (and they always seem costly), that is the rate you must follow, provided you book her. Don't try to cheat her out of her pay. If you find you cannot afford a particular escort, then its better you let her be. It's important to remember that for escorts, time is a very sensitive issue. Each session is timed so that any extensions will require additional payments. If you decide to take her out to dinner first before a rendezvous at her place, she will require payment for all the time you've spent together. Just as necessary to note is that escorts prefer cash to any other means of payment. While Paypal, Venmo and the odd credit card seem like seamless alternatives, they are never popular with escorts. Neither are expensive gifts when used as payments. Gifts should be gifts, not a form of payment. All you need is to come with enough cash and pay her before or after the session. Don't try to pay her less and hope she won't see it; she will notice. Additionally, most escorts have differing rates for outcalls and incalls. Take note and be prepared when you arrived. Finally, tip, and tip well. She is not a restaurant, but she offers a service, and if you feel great at session's end, there's no reason not to show appreciation.

No Violence Ever

Don't ever beat up an escort or hurt her in any way. That is not the way to treat an escort right. For many clients, expressions of violence are common in such sexual situations. Violence toward escorts is a combination of many things; it ranges from seemingly harmless choking during sex to actual physical beating. Many clients consider slaps, choking, and other means of hurting as great additions to a sexual moment. But unless an escort says she likes it, or it was part of the agreement made earlier between client and escort, this is violence and torture. Such attacks are painful and clearly the wrong way to treat an escort. On the extreme side, escorts regularly reveal instances of rape, beating, and extended torture at the hands of terrible clients. The worst of all is rape. Despite common belief, escorts and other sex workers are not common, worthless objects that can be used and discarded. Forced sex is wrong, even with escorts. When it comes to beating, many escorts report that some clients start okay and then descend into violent rages, usually when ticked off by issues like money or refusal by the escort to fulfill a specific sexual need. Others react violently when they arrive to find the escort looking different from what they expected. If you find that the girl wasn't what you wanted, leave. No altercations are required.

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How To Treat An Escort