What To Do If Your Client Expects A Service You Don't Offer

What To Do If Your Client Expects A Service You Don't Offer

Before The Interaction Takes Place, Be Clear On What You Offer

By far, the best and easiest way that you can avoid having to deal with a client who is expecting a service that you do not offer is to clearly talk about what kinds of sexy acts you want to engage in as well as those which you do not offer.

What Acts Are You Not Willing To Engage In?

I know it seems like a simple task, but - if you haven't done it before - take some time to think long and hard about the types of acts you are not willing to engage in. Understand your limits and what you're not comfortable doing.

What Sexy Acts Are You Willing To Perform?

Once you have a list of all of the acts you don't feel comfortable performing with clients, write out a list of every other act that you're more than happy to engage in. This list of acts you are comfortable performing can change as time goes on (you may add some kinky tricks to your resume, or remove some things you no longer agree with), but you should always keep your list updated.

List Your Rules On An Escort Website

Whether it's a personal escort website, an agency website, or an online classified service, any post advertising your services as an escort should be accompanied by your list of sexy deeds you're willing to perform. By clearly stating what you're willing to do, you'll eliminate the chances for any miscommunication with clients regarding your services.

Make Sure The Discussion Stays On Topic

Once you've discovered that a client expects a service that you don't offer, you need to stop what you're doing and discuss the matter with the client, and make sure that the discussion doesn't end without the issue being resolved. The only way you'll know your client will have a hot time in the sheets with a sexy escort like yourself is to know you're both on the same page.

Be Professional, Not Aggressive

It's a delicate balance to perform, when confronting a client about the services you're willing to perform and those you will not, but you need to be firm and unwavering. Don't be stern or angry, but speak in a way that they understand this is a business matter and nothing more.

Let Them Know It's Not Personal

By addressing the situation from a business perspective, it lets the client know that what you're saying isn't personal. As soon as they understand that telling them 'no' is strictly a business matter matter, they are usually much more understanding.

Keep Small Talk To A Minimum

There is a strong possibility that your client might still feel uneasy after expecting a service you don't offer, and try to change the topic. If this happens, you should always steer the conversation back on track. By straying from the matter at hand, there's always a chance you might inadvertently be distracted and soften your stance. It goes without saying, but it's important to always keep your own well-being in mind when discussing services with a client.

Be Understanding With Your Client

Clearly Explain Your Reasons For Not Offering Specific Services

Don't be afraid to let your client know why you don't offer the specific service they are requesting. You may have safety concerns regarding a specific service, or it could be as simple as your own personal preference - every reason is valid. By providing the client with a concrete reason, you convey to them that you have thought about the matter and made a firm decision.

Do Not Fetish Shame

Regardless of your own personal reasons for not wanting to partake in certain explicit sexual activities with your client, it's important to not come off condescending or intolerant when you explain yourself. Your client may start to feel embarrassed or ashamed about his (or her) kinks, which may lead to them ending your professional relationship or submitting a bad review online.

Spin Your Reasons To The Client's Benefit

If you can, try turning your reasons for saying no to the service they expect into something positive. For instance, if your client is expecting to not use protection (such as a condom) but you will not allow it - tell them that if they use protection, they won't have to remove themselves before evacuating their loins (we understand that's a very polite way to describe a very naughty act, but we like to be polite at Escort Rankings).

Encourage Other Options Or Services

There are few things worst that having a client leave feeling disappointed, especially when you could have come to a solution that would benefit both of you. So before the engagement with your client comes to a close, try to explore other kinky options or sexy services that will leave everyone ending the night with a smile on their faces!

Explore Similar Services

Before you send them away, if you can identify what the client specifically likes about the services you don't offer, maybe you can figure out a comfortable alternative. There's always a chance the specific aspects of the service you don't agree with have nothing to do with what the client is actually interested in.

Other Options May Be Available

If the service a client is expecting revolves around a specific fetish or sexual culture, there's a good chance they may find similar minded people at a local sex or fetish club. If they seem nervous about going, you could even suggest escorting them until they feel comfortable going themselves (for your regular fee of course). Or, if you are aware of any other escorts in the area who are willing to perform a specific service you don't engage in, it may not be a bad idea to pass their contact information along to the client. You may find them returning the favor in the future.

Take Responsibility If It's Not The Client's Fault

If it turns out that the entire misunderstanding isn't in the client's hands, but yours - you need to take responsibility for that screw up. If you are able to take responsibility in a way that doesn't leave the client feeling like they were taken advantage of, there's a very good chance that you'll be able to save that escort/client relationship as well as avoid any unfavorable reviews.

Do Not Charge The Client For Your Mistakes

If you were not clear about the services you are willing to engage in beforehand - whether through advertisement on the internet or a simple discussion - and you still want to salvage your relationship with the client, do not accept payment for the time you spent. And if you decide to take the high road and politely mention you will not be charging them for the time already spent, you might discover that...

Compassion Sometimes Pays Off

A good percentage of the time a client wants to spend time with an escort for more than just physical reasons. Sometimes, they just want a break from an over-demanding boss, or an emotionally aggressive spouse. Sometimes, they just want to spend a couple of hours with someone who will listen and be understanding. That said, the more compassionate and understanding you are to your client, the more likely they will compensate you for your time - even if they didn't spend a little bit of kinky time between the sheets with a sensual escort.

Be Prepared To Say No Sometimes

Develop More Skills That Can Turn Bad News Into Good News

As we've just established, it's never an easy thing to give someone the bad news - especially a client. Even though it can be a completely innocent request where no ill will is intended, it can still be an awkward situation. Because in the end, it doesn't matter what your intentions toward your client are - by the time it reaches your client's ears, what they are hearing isn't going to be good news. So how do you get over that hurdle? How do you deliver bad news to a client in a way that will end the conversation on good terms, and have them still respect and acknowledge your wishes? Thankfully, there is an incredibly useful article on Psychology Today that was custom made to answer those questions! The article, titled 5 Ways To Deliver Bad News With A Minimum Of Pain and written by Susan Krauss Whitbourne (a certified Ph.D), clearly and concisely illustrates different tactics and approaches to delivering unfortunate news in the smoothest way possible. And that kind of knowledge can go a long way in life - not just in the hottest escort/client relationship!

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