How to Be An Escort's Favorite Client

How To Be An Escort's Favourite Client

As any fan of escort services will tell you, it's one thing to enjoy the beautiful services of a sexy escort but another thing altogether to be one of her preferred clients. The latter means that you can get it whenever you want, and she can be more open with you, hence offer better, out-of-this-world sexual experiences. And who wouldn't want that?

That's why we're answering the million-dollar question: how does one become an escort's favorite client? The answer to this is simple: as noted above, be a gentleman, be respectful and be a good lover. There's more to each of these advice pitches, of course, but they are the founding principles anyone should follow. It's not rocket science; any woman would love to be in the company of a respectful man that also knows how to meet her sexual needs. The escort-client relationship might be professional, but it is built on the same foundation as any other sexual relationship.

Pay In Cash

If you really want to be the guy every escort wants to be with, be the guy that knows what every escort wants. One of the things escorts wish for is payment in cash. Always offer that and make things happen seamlessly. Be the guy that knows his way around certain escorts so well that issues like money are never discussed. That seamlessness brings about a level of trust between you and an escort, the kind of faith that elevates you to the status of a preferred client. And when you pay, be the guy that tips well. An escort's work is a service after all, and she deserves to be tipped well if you feel you've been served well. A good, thoughtful, and regular tipper is never forgotten. He is more likely to become a good client and an escort's favorite rather than a fuck-pay-and-go client.

Make Her Feel Like a Lady

High-class escorts claim a history that dates back to the Chinese geishas and imperial courtesans around the world. Such women were known for their beauty and their poised manners and were usually well regarded and their services were considered with respect. There is no difference today; if anything, escorts are even better poised if you find a really good one. Just like in the old days, therefore, escorts need to be treated like ladies. Their services differ significantly from those offered by ladies of the night or street hookers. Escorts expect to be pampered, treated right, and handled gently. They expect an understanding gentleman to know this and who knows how to treat an escort. If you're looking to become an escort's favorite, pick up on these cues. Pamper your escort by taking her out, getting her gifts, sending her flowers, or bankrolling her next shopping sprees. Make sure to make her feel special the whole time. Do this regularly, and back-to-back appointments will suddenly become possible.

Be Open, Not Shifty

At the beginning of most escort-client associations, the escort requests the client to provide some information about themselves. The best clients are those that provide the necessary information without causing too much trouble. The escort usually wants to know; who are you? What do you really want to do? Are you on any sexual enhancers? What are your expectations? Are you safe? And more such questions. She expects the answers to help her see if you're the right fit for her services, and to see how she can prepare. Many clients undermine the importance of this exercise. They carry on like it is another hooker they're visiting, so they assume there is no need to give any information. They have no idea what escorts think of them. This is a turn-off for any escort that values her services. A good client provides the necessary information voluntarily in the first email or phone call and then waits on the escort's decision regarding the session.

Know What You Want

According to many escorts, many guys, especially first-timers, stay silent during their first encounter regarding what they want. They end up being disappointed when what they got isn't what they wanted. Others come in expecting wildly unrealistic sex styles that escorts are unwilling to try. One common rule most escorts have is that clients must reveal what they are looking for before any action takes place. This is where unrealistic ideas are trashed and fetishes are discovered. As a client, you are in charge of the session. What you want is what you get.

You must therefore be brave enough to know what you want and ask for it. Escorts are sex workers, so they know and are open to all types of things. They can always say no or yes to a suggestion, but that doesn't mean they'll refuse each of your ideas or judge you for your fetishes. The confidence a guy exudes while asking for a unique fetish - that's the kind of confidence that turns an escort on and builds excellent chemistry. Hence, know what you want and ask for it at the very beginning. Surprises mid-action are not very welcome.

Be Amazing In Bed

They also know good sex and bad sex well enough. If you know your stuff between the sheets, i.e., you're the kind of guy who makes an escort feel absolute sexual pleasure, you'll have an easier time getting closer to the escort's preferred clients' list. If you don't feel like you're good enough, improve your skillset by learning new styles and adapting accordingly. Don't make the mistake of using porn as a benchmark for what good-in-bed looks like.

Be Clean

This is an easy one. Sex with anyone is better when the couple participating feels ok with each other. Things like cleanliness bring about this 'ok' in the first place, even when it's a client in a paid sexual session with an escort. A cleaner client is easier and less disgusting to work with, given the stranger-stranger nature of circumstances. Cleanliness here covers mouth breath, body odor, hair cleanliness, foot smell, fingernail length and cleanliness, and more. Most escorts will require that an individual take a shower on arrival, so you must be open to that. Cleanliness is really one aspect of a huge set of small things the ideal client should tick off. Prepare for the date, be clean, and she'll think highly of you. Be extremely clean and smell great, and she will want more of you.

Make It More About A Fun Experience, And Not Just Sex

Every guy comes in wanting one sex style or another. Others come in looking for a 'great' sexual experience, and that's all. Those guys never stand out to an escort, no matter their sexual prowess. The guys that stand out are the guys that understand how a real escort-client relationship should be. A real relationship is not all about sex. In fact, sex is rarely mentioned. Sex is just an added perk; the whole session is about the escort's company. If you can understand this difference, you'll know how to become the favorite client of any escort you choose.

When you realise that it's more than just a sexual session, you finally figure out that it's an experience, and it needs to be wonderful. Your contribution determines what kind of man you are, and makes or breaks the possibility of you becoming an escort's favorite client. You can contribute to the experience by making it more exciting and lively. Hanging out, going to concerts, having simple dates, taking her to events - this works for an extrovert. If you're introverted, staying in and getting cuddly or engaging in good conversation with a glass of wine can be a great experience. Some clients take their escorts with them to the countryside for weekends. Others take them on month-long holidays or take them on shopping sprees. It's an experience, and the better you make yours, the more she'll appreciate you.

Understand That It Is A Professional Relationship First And Foremost

One common mistake clients make when visiting escorts is that they forget and blur the lines of what's professional and what's not. With an excellent escort, the company is always bound to be better than expected. Some clients fall hard in love with their escorts and might start pursuing a relationship. This is the last thing escorts want out of any professional relationships they might have. Such entanglements make work difficult for escorts, so they try to avoid them. Clients that profess love are marked as clingy and are usually blacklisted. If you're trying to become an escort's favorite client, show that you understand the difference and that you know where your relationship with her ends. Make sure you don't go too deep and end up falling for her.

Don't Patronize or Lecture Her

If you want to be an escort's worst client, start by feeling pity for her. Ask her why she is in this line of work. Offer her a million options she could try rather than her current career choice. Offer her money so she can leave her job and do something else. Most clients don't recognize it, but such actions are self-aggrandizing and selfish, in addition to being insulting. Escorts want you to value their service, to take it as they give it to you. You are not the king of the moral high ground to determine what careers are worse than others. While they might seem like the right thing to say, morally and ethically, these suggestions are never welcome among escorts and are always perceived negatively. Any escort will cancel you for disrespecting her if you behave like this. Instead, try praising her work and her skillset. Highlight her best moments, and praise her like the queen she has curated herself into becoming for you. Don't lecture her, even in joking style. Good praise will warm her to you, and she will consider you better after.

Don't Be a Jerk, Be Respectful

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