What To Expect From A Newbie Escort

What To Expect From A Newbie Escort

A bit of shyness

The first thing to expect from a newbie escort is that she will be a bit shy, or even too shy. This happens mostly when the escort is quite young and new to the game. She might have had sex before, but not too much. She will express a bit of nervousness around exposing herself to you in the beginning. Some men find this shyness appealing and a major turn-on; others find it annoying, especially in a highly-priced escort. During moments like these, you have to warm her into feeling comfortable around you.

Discomfort, with the whole act, even during sex

Even more to expect from a newbie escort is a bit of discomfort during the whole session, especially if she is quite young. Some express discomfort throughout the whole act, starting from the moment the client arrives (especially if clients are just disagreeable in one way or another), and even during sex, especially in situations where clients have bigger penises than they have ever worked with. She might try to hide the discomfort by pushing through, because she might not know how to stand up for herself. If you're a keen observer, you can notice and help her by making sure she airs her opinion on things.

A bit of naiveté, especially around different sexual acts

Don't go in for a newbie escort and expect to find her knowledgeable in all things sex the same way an older, more experienced escort might be. Unless she had a previous life as a porn star or sex educator, a newbie escort will most likely be naïve about many things in the sheets. She might know the basics, but not enough. She will probably accept most sexual suggestions you make, unaware of their implications or requirements. On the other hand, she might also have so many limitations because of knowing too little. In case you land on a newbie escort with good knowledge of various sexual acts, she will know her limitations, but might be less willing to air them lest she starts off with terrible reviews.

Eagerness to try new things

You can always spot a newbie by their eagerness to please their client, even if it means breaking their own rules or devaluing their services. The eagerness sometimes stems from desperate personal needs, but it's mostly the result of wanting to make sure the client leaves feeling happy. If you've booked a newbie escort, expect to find her eager to go along with whatever you wish for, or at least to feign eagerness for the sake of it. Unless a girl is trained by an agency or has past sexual experience, no position is out of bounds, no technique is off-limits. Some clients use this situation to take advantage of newbies in the worst way possible, which is wrong.

Freshness and sexiness

The main reason men like newbie escorts is because they're fresh and sexy in an 'I haven't been touched before' kind of way. This is usually true if you find a newbie escort in the younger age ranges. In most cases, it always turns out be true that a newbie is really fresh and sexy and beautiful. Such girls are great arm candy, especially for the men looking to have them as dates. They are also good in bed. If you're wondering about the positives a newbie escort brings to the table, this is one of them.

Not-so-great sex or wonderful sex, depending on background and experience

Sex with any escort can be good or bad, but you can know a newbie escort by how good or bad their sexual prowess is. Newbie escorts tend to be either quite bad or quite good, depending on their sexual background, experiences and understanding of their trade. On the negative side, it's mostly inexperience and anxiety that causes trouble. She might be scared or panicky, or just plain naïve about half the things going on. If she is good, she might have good sexual background to credit. And in that case, expect an eager escort that is going to blow your mind (pun intended).

How to handle a new escort

Treat her like any other

This is to say don't highlight the newbie-ness of it all. Treat her like you would any other escort you've met before. Be as respectful as though you were with an older, more experienced escort. Don't pick on her neuroses or missteps; it can be a huge blow to someone's ego and a great chemistry killer.

If you must highlight her newbie-ness, make it positive

Sometimes, you may fail to ignore things about a newbie escort. If you feel you must talk about them, such as her neuroses or her anxiety or her mistakes, its best you approach the talk carefully and stay positive. You can mention that you don't mind her neuroses, or even assure her that it will all pass once she gets more experience. If you like how nervous she is and it makes you feel good, you can mention it. Any sort of praise goes a long way to boost a newbie's self-confidence.

Don't patronize her

It's almost impossible to avoid this, especially if you've been dealing with escorts for a while or if you're considerably older. Sometimes, new escorts tend to be young and pitiable, so much that some men feel like they have to extend an offer of help. It's not always a welcome proposition to patronize her, so don't bring it up. Any offers of advice or sums of money to help her out of her situation will be received as rude remarks from a client, so don't do that.

Warm her up

There is always an unmistakable nervousness in any first-timer, whether they're on stage, in a company meeting or in a flat starting a sexual session. Those nerves, when left untended, end up affecting the whole sexual session because there is no chemistry. The nervousness usually comes about because of fear of making mistakes, fear of sex with strangers, fear of pain and other anxieties. When dealing with a new escort, you need to help her warm-up. Experts suggest starting with a chat to create chemistry, or even a cuddle. Better yet, good foreplay helps to smoothen up a sex session with a nervous escort.

Be respectful

A newbie escort, like any other escort, deserves total respect from their client. Respect comes in many forms, but with newbie escorts, it concentrates around accepting, and not undermining her choices. A newbie escort always has her set of rules, but they are bound to change as time goes by and her experiences widen. She might prefer that clients take a shower on arrival, or that she only does outcalls. She might even require that all her clients use condoms. You can be a better client by respecting all her decisions as she makes them. Even if she says she does not try certain sex styles, including one you really prefer, respect her decision. Respect also seeps into abuse. Just because she's young and powerless doesn't mean she needs to be called a slut or a whore or a bitch during sex unless she asks for it, of course.

Don't be violent at all

Violent clients create a bad name for the trade and discourage lots of young escorts from their career. For a newbie escort, a violent client is a sneak peek into the worst parts of escort culture. Violence comes in many forms of course including emotional, physical, and mental abuse. Newbie escorts are very likely to trigger violence among clients through their mistakes and choices. Some clients expect newbie escorts to be more willing to try different things in bed, including things the newbie doesn't like. When the newbie refuses, violence ensues. Some newbies turn out to look different from what they advertised, causing violence from the customer. Other newbies tend to be not very good in bed, causing disappointment. On the other side of things, some clients come looking for violence, such as rough sex. Whether it's verbal abuse, physical beating, or rough sex, do not attempt either because it definitely hurts the escort and also gives them a bad impression of the trade.

Tip her well, pay her fairly

The best thing you can do for a new escort is to pay her well and fairly. It's highly likely that she got into the escort business because of money, so it's only fair to pay out her dues. Fair pay starts with you understanding her rates and her time schedule. You also need to know that any additional activities you suggest, such as going out, will increase your bill. Many clients know that a newbie escort will be slightly fearful to ask for her money, so they pay them less or not at all. That is not fair and unrealistic. And when paying her, do so respectfully. First, ask her what payment method she prefers, cash or not? Then ask her how she wants to receive it in her hands, by the bed, after or before the session? And when you pay, remember to tip her well.

Conclusion

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